I think this one is a no brainer! I hope to never have to outlive my husband or children! Just thinking about going on without any of them breaks my heart! I think the hardest thing a wife ever has to go through is the death of her partner. And no one would question the hardest thing for any parent is to bury their child! Not that I really want them to have to go through burring me, but I think I would loose my mind to loose any of them! They are, without a doubt what keeps me sane, driven and loved!